1) You are not expected to like that stuff/ be into bdsm. You are just expected not to shame people about it. 2) You people tend to think everything comes from society. Well, hey! News flash! It doesn't! In my everyday life, I'm a very outgoing feminist sassy person. I don't let guys take advantage of me. But I like it in bed and that doesn't come from porn/society, it comes from my daddy issues.
Literally everything comes from the way you are socialized.
Everything: Norms, habits, ‘common sense,’ pretty much everything outside of genetics.
Besides, the amount of times people -have- expected me or people I know to be into kink and then GOT ANGRY AT THEM WHEN THEY WEREN’T DOWN FOR IT is ridiculous.
I mean there was that post floating around where some girls were trying to talk about how their boyfriends started choking them in bed and it scared them and they didn’t know what to do and kinksters were like “don’t shame them they can’t help it.” “CoNsEnSuAl!1!!1” and literally reblog after reblog of people trying to tell these girls off for trying to talk about being assaulted and kinksters were like “nope it was just kink STOP SHAMING ME.”
I mean if that’s not going to make you take a fucking step back and just look at your fucking choices then get the fuck out of my ask box.
Because that is literally all I’m asking people to do. Think about what you do, and the harm it can cause other people.
But I really shouldn’t even try to have an argument with someone who uses this kind of language!
"I don’t LET guys take advantage of me" ?
Implying that OTHER women do?